You have no idea what the wedding industry is like!
After photographing and filming more than 250 weddings, I can confidently say I have a broad understanding of different people, styles, and religious groups, along with their unique challenges.
I always tell my couples: don’t just pick me! Choose carefully and thoughtfully!
The true character of people
Do you know what most conversations at the vendor table are about once we’re done with part of the job? Many wedding emcees reveal their true colors. Their tone becomes less professional, and you can tell whether they genuinely enjoy being there or if they’re just doing it for the money. Let me clarify—I’m not being negative or judgmental. I’m simply sharing what I’ve observed.
Chaos in photo delivery
Have you seen how many people complain on Reddit about waiting 4-5 months for their wedding photos? Yes, there are photographers who deliver after six months or more. I honestly don’t understand it. I’ve calculated that, on average, it takes me about 20 seconds to edit one photo. For 800 photos, that’s around 4.5 hours. Add some extra retouching, and we’re talking about a full workday. I start editing the day after the wedding because I work best when the memories are fresh.
Some may delay for hype or just because they don’t care. I don’t work that way, but I can tell you it’s all too common.
Unprepared photographers
We often hear stories about photographers or videographers showing up on the wedding day without knowing the schedule. They just wing it, relying on their gear to “figure it out.” I may be relaxed, but I always prepare. I know what comes next, where I need to be, and what I need to bring—whether it’s extra batteries or an umbrella.
What makes a professional wedding photographer?
It’s not about pretty Instagram photos, an AI-generated logo, or trendy hashtags. Being a professional wedding photographer is about managing the entire day seamlessly. It’s about handling drunk guests asking when the photos will be ready and staying enthusiastic despite any negative remarks.
A lesson learned
Once, an overbearing mother-of-the-bride arrived in a fancy BMW. She started taking pictures with her phone, and I kindly suggested she clean her lens, as pocket lint might blur the photos. She took offense and made snide remarks throughout the day. The couple apologized repeatedly, but it was a reminder of how important it is to handle these situations gracefully and remain focused on delivering my best work.
